About Cynthia
Dr. Cynthia Starkey uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques to guide people through stress, anxiety, relationship struggles, trauma and grief. She is a licensed mental health counselor in New York with 24 years of professional experience.
Her style is straightforward and supportive, aimed at helping people take practical steps toward feeling better. She focuses on common challenges such as depression, post-traumatic stress, social anxiety, and mood disorders. She also helps with communication problems, divorce and separation, guilt and shame, isolation and questions about life purpose.
Background and approach
Sessions concentrate on understanding what is happening now and on small, doable changes. In sessions she creates an open space for people to talk about hard feelings without judgment. Conversations are direct and grounded, with attention to what a person wants to change and how to get there.
She encourages realistic goals and steady progress rather than quick fixes. Her approach blends practical techniques with listening and empathy. Over two decades of work inform how she adapts methods to each person’s situation.
The aim is to build coping skills, improve relationships, and increase self-compassion step by step. People often come for help after big losses, conflict, or ongoing worry. Dr.
Starkey offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.
Evidence-based approaches and online care that fit your life
Dr. Starkey uses practical, evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on what helps people feel better day to day. One common approach she uses emphasizes skills for managing anxiety and stress, teaching breathing, grounding, and thinking strategies to reduce overwhelming symptoms and improve daily functioning. Another approach concentrates on processing trauma and abuse in manageable steps, helping people reduce the hold of painful memories and rebuild a sense of safety and agency.Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what has or hasn’t helped before. Together they decide which methods to try and adjust the plan as progress is made, so treatment fits the person rather than forcing a single method.
Online therapy offers flexible ways to connect. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when that feels important. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or a shorter check-in is needed. Live chat and text-based messaging let people share thoughts between sessions or choose a lower-key format for communicating. These options help therapy fit into work, parenting, or other life demands while keeping the focus on steady, practical progress.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
Also works with
- Experience
- 24 years
- Licensed
- New York
- Languages
- English